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Baby Horse Diaries Introduction
 By Polo the Weirdo   •   12th May 2019   •   207 views   •   0 comments
Baby Horse Diaries

Some of you might remember that about 8 years ago I created a series on Ponybox documenting my progress in retraining a young Thoroughbred racehorse, Moonfire (Moo), for his eventing career. Those of you who continued to follow my (admittedly sporadic) work would know that, despite the flak I received initially for these articles, Moonfire turned out a thousand times better than I ever hoped he would. He was an incredibly successful all-rounder, and was well on his way to proving himself one of the very best eventers in the country when I lost him suddenly in February last year. It was a devastating loss, but that is a sad story already told, and this, I hope, is going to be a happy one.

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Shortly before losing Moo, my incredible mother pulled out some money we had in savings from selling my old pony, and allowed me to put it to use selecting a young eventing prospect to bring on in the hopes that when Moo eventually retired, I would have another up-and-coming horse to pursue my career. Of course, that’s not at all how things worked out, but either way, I came to acquire my next young prospect:

De Niro – a South African Warmblood and my very first purpose-bred sport horse.

Baby Horse Diaries

Unfortunately, he came with a fairly severe breathing issue that required surgery to correct. The reality of this came to my attention shortly after our loss, and I knew with absolute clarity that if De Niro’s surgery was not a success, if something went wrong, and I had to let go of another horse and commit to starting over all over again right after losing my Moo, I just wouldn’t be able to bear it. It would have been the end of my career, and I wasn’t willing to risk that. I had to find a way to force myself to carry on no matter what. So I did what any professional would do, and found myself a second youngster to commit my time and attention to while De Niro was out of work, in the hopes that if all did not go to plan, I would already be stuck training a new youngster anyway. And if all did go to plan, I would have my little string of two young eventers to produce alongside each other.

Baby Horse Diaries

I made the decision like a professional, but let me just say with full disclosure that I dealt with it like the broken, grieving bundle of patheticness that I certainly was at the time. I told myself that I would never compare my new youngster – a 3 year old TB filly who I named ‘Little Miss Sunshine’ – to Moo, but boy did I lie.

I resented her for every way she wasn’t like Moo, and I resented her for every way she was.

I had days where I would get off her in tears, where I would try to send her back to the seller, where I’d wake up in the morning and stare at my boots for a full 20 minutes, asking myself ‘is it really worth it?’ and ‘can’t I just give up’? But I’ve always been terrible at quitting when it comes to horses, so I persevered, figured her out, and now with De Niro back from a successful surgery, I have two pretty nice (though not always easy) young horses, and a very long road to a hopefully bright future ahead of me.

This was not by any means the path that I chose, and believe me when I say that I would give anything in the world to have Moo and my career back, but training young horses has always been my passion, and although this isn’t what I planned, in a way I am happy to be back here, despite my immense disappointment at not being on the way to the top in a very successful career like I was with Moo. So, in the spirit of making the best damn lemonade in the world, I hope you’ll all join me one more time in my journey of training a young eventer (or in this case, two).

If there’s one thing Moo taught me, it’s a sense of humour, so if you enjoy a good laugh (especially at my expense) then you better watch this space for the start of a very exciting new series, my ‘Baby Horse Diaries’, documenting all the woes and sorrows of trying to train animals that are essentially stupid giant squirrels with ADHD and a caffeine problem.
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